Have you ever been with a guy who objectively may have been prettier or more attractive than you? Or maybe you’ve even gotten the lovely backhanded compliment, “how did you land him?” Let’s face it, in this vast world, not all couples are going to physically match. There are some couples where the partner is much better looking than his female counterpart. Does it mean she should be any less secure?
We all immediately judge a person based on their appearance. We judge couples on how they look together, so it’s not surprising to compare which of the two is better looking. When it comes to a man who is prettier than his partner, people often come to conclusions why they are together. Some even determine that since the girlfriend or spouse isn’t as good looking, he must be cheating on her. Cheating on your partner just because she isn’t as good looking is a pretty terrible conclusion. Just because a man is better looking doesn’t mean he can’t keep his hands to himself. Not all pretty men are vapid, selfish, arrogant jerks who only think about themselves.
We have to remember that the physical aspect of a relationship only comes into play for so long. If you are currently dating a guy who is deemed better looking than you, think about why he digs you. You or other people may not think it, but perhaps he thinks you are the most stunning woman on earth. He came to that conclusion because of he loves everything that makes you, you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and as long as he finds you beautiful, that should be the only thing that matters. So for all those women who wonder why they can’t land a hunky guy likes yours, it may be time for them to reevaluate their own personality.
We begin to doubt ourselves and our confidence when people question why such a great looking or handsome man would want to date someone like us. If you have a beautiful heart and soul that he loves and appreciates, ignore the naysayers. We are in a society that is obsessed with looks, which is frankly unimportant when it comes to the bigger picture. So don’t think that your man is only with you because he feels bad for you or because he’s doing a good deed (how egotistical would that be?). Trust that your man is with you because he genuinely digs you.
Sometimes a man who is good looking enough to get any girl he wants is more selective in nature. He knows he has plenty of choices but instead of going to hot girl to the next, he looks for more. Looks fade and we all age. When it comes down to it, if you both are emotionally stimulated as much as you are physically, then there is nothing to be insecure about. Let the haters think what they want, you and your man know you have the real thing, which is a lasting relationship.