The standard of women’s beauty has always been defined by the media. First women were told that big butts were unattractive and large breasts were the most physically appealing. Now fashion magazines and social media are telling women to strive to have voluptuous rears and coke-bottle bodies. It’s a vicious cycle that women are caught in. Sadly this cycle will not end soon because there will always be a different look or trend to change the outlook of what beauty should be. All women fall victim to this cycle and can have self-doubt or body image issues when they are perfectly beautiful to begin with!
Ultimately, how important is a big butt? Is it the end of the world if you don’t have one? No it isn’t, but it seems that having a beautifully shaped body does make a woman’s life much easier. What women and men need to remember is that physical appearances are truly the first impression we get. So if a guy sees an attractive woman with a nice body, he tends to be nicer. It’s just human nature. Is it always right? No, it’s not right. We are taught as children to treat everyone equally but yet as we grow older we tend to give better treatment to prettier people. It isn’t until we get to know a person that we see their true colors and past their physical features.
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While bigger rears and nicer bodies do get more attention, it doesn’t mean it’s always the best attention. In fact some women dislike their beautiful bodies because they feel it prevents potential men from getting to know who she is as a person. As many people say, the grass is always greener on the side. Some full figured women may wish they weren’t so curvy while thinner women wished they had more curves. It’s a battle that will continue because of society and its body image issues.
What both women and men need to realize is that beauty does fade and even a glorious round rump won’t last forever. What will last are personality, intelligence, and compassion. So the initial focus might by on a woman’s beautiful body, but it does need to extend beyond the aesthetics of a person.
If you don’t have a big butt, it’s not the end all be all. Remember all your other positive features. Also you need to remind yourself that it isn’t just a nice body that will attract a man. It’s also confidence. A woman with confidence will garner more attention than one who has none. Be confident in yourself and love yourself, everything else will fall into place.
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Don’t listen to social media’s standards of what a perfect body is. If you do, you will drive yourself mad. Instead focus on all your positive and attractive features and love yourself. Regardless of whether you have a large or small butt, embrace whatever it is you have! There will be a person who loves you for what you look like and most importantly what makes you, you.