Six Ways to Tell if You’re Bi-Curious

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Many of us women have thought about what it would be like to kiss another girl. Or maybe you’ve kissed another girl and you really enjoyed it. Or perhaps your mind has wandered further to wonder how nice a woman’s body looks. Have you ever thought that you may possibly be bi-curious?

If you’re wondering what bi-curious means, it means that you consider yourself straight or heterosexual but have thought of participating in sexual activity with the same sex. Now there is a difference between being bi-curious and bisexual. Those who are bisexual have had relationships and sex with both sexes while a person who is bi-curious has had limited or no experience of any sort of sexual activity with the same sex.

There’s nothing wrong with being bi-curious. While it can be a phase for some, it can also be a sign that you may be bisexual as well. If you find yourself wondering what it would be like to be with another woman, why not take the chance and see where it goes?

Keep reading to find out six ways to tell if you’re bi-curious:

  1. You’ve fantasized about engaging in sex with another woman. If you find yourself wondering what it would be like to go out on a date with a girl or to have sex with her, it’s a definite sign you are bi-curious. Perhaps you’ve even had fantasies about being with a woman while you’ve pleasured yourself. You find that it really turns you to explore your sexuality with another female.
  2. You’ve kissed another girl and really enjoyed it. Did you kiss another girl before? Did it really turn you on? Or perhaps you’re still thinking about the kiss and have fantasized about it going further. This is another definite indicator you are bi-curious.
  3. You look at girl on girl porn or read lesbian erotica. When you watch porn, alone or with your partner, you prefer to watch scenes that are girl on girl. You know it definitely gets you more excited that seeing a man and a woman engaging in sex. Also when it comes to erotic literature, you prefer reading about the soft beautiful curves of a woman and wonder what it would like to be in that position romancing her.
  4. You have a crush on a woman. Generally those who are straight or heterosexual will want to be friends with an awesome girl they meet. You however have been crushing hardcore on her and want to engage in sexual activity with her. You wonder what she looks like naked or what it would be like to be in a relationship with her. It’s a definitely sign you are more than just intrigued.
  5. You love the female body. While all women tend to compete with each other, you are more aware of how great her body is rather than comparing it to your own. You also love examining and looking at the naked form of a female body and more often than not wonder what it would be like to touch her bare skin. Also you can’t but feel turned on thinking about a woman’s naked body and all the sexual possibilities. That’s a big ole’ flag your bi-curious!
  6. You are overly affectionate with your girlfriends. Sure you and your girlfriends hold hands but you find yourself enjoying their touch a little too much. You know you don’t want to weird them out but you find yourself again wondering what they would look like naked. You rarely compete with them in terms of physical competition and find yourself complimenting them on numerous occasions about how hot they look.

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