Oops! Is that period of the year and you are already feeling awkward and afraid of keeping your appointment with your OB/GYN. Why so? Because you are afraid of throwing some embarrassing questions at your doctor, especially if he’s male. Many women feel reluctant to ask the kind of questions they want because of this reason.
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The fact is some women feel reluctant going to a doctor and sharing some of their private stuffs with him/her. They feel uncomfortable because they feel the doctor may perceive the questions as “embarrassing”. Most times, they don’t.
Well, the truth is no question is too embarrassing for your OB/GYN. They have probably heard everything that there is to hear. They encourage you to spill out whatever that’s bothering you because that’s why they are there in the first place. Whether you like it or not, you will feel a lot better after you have shared your problem with your doctor. That’s because they have a way of calming down your nerves and knows how to allay your fears.
According to Michael Troy, MD and an OB/GYN with the Institute of Women’s Health, she said that many people feel reluctant to ask them questions about their private stuffs to them. However, you telling your doctor provides them with a picture of what’s wrong with you and this will allow them offer the answers that you seek.
If you don’t tell your OB/GYN what’s up with you down there, you are risking your chances of getting early diagnosis. Which means that treatment will be delayed should something be wrong with you. Health is wealth! If your health is affected, how can you create wealth? How can you be productive?
The body’s system is complicated. There may be some things that are wrong down there that you think is nothing. That is why you need to ask a lot of questions. We give you a list of some embarrassing questions you may be too scared to ask your OB/GYN.
Why do I get vaginal discharge?
Most experts say that vaginal discharge is a normal occurrence. However, if the discharge is associated with itching and pain, you might want to check it out at the hospital. Various color discharge speaks a whole lot about your reproductive health. For example, if your discharge is of a whitish appearance, it signifies that you may have some yeast infection. If it’s grayish in color and has a fishy odor, it may be that you have bacterial vaginosis.
Nearly one-third of women who think they have a yeast infection actually do. The other suffer from bacterial vaginosis, a bad bacteria that is caused by unbalanced vaginal pH. However, if you are unsure of what type of infection you are suffering from, that is when you consult your doctor. Once you are diagnosed with bacterial vaginosis, the doctor may proceed with treating you with antibiotics.
You must know that most of these infections can be transmitted through sex. Consulting your doctor is the surest way to get treated.
I have vaginal odor in the morning after sex. What should I do?
Well, you aren’t dirty and there is no need to wash down there with your perfumed soap because that won’t help it. The odor may be as a result of unbalanced vaginal pH.
Most times, the odor occur usually in the morning after sex. The vagina is an extremely delicate system that needs to have a maintained pH of 3.5 – 4.5. A semen has a pH of 7.1 – 8, so when it’s introduced to the vagina, it disrupts the balance. Thereby, causing a vaginal odor.
Most women avoid going to a doctor to complain about this because they opt to douche the part with water. Mind you, water has a neutral pH of 7. It might make you feel okay for a while, but that doesn’t mean that your problem will be solved.
Best way to avoid this odor is by using a RepHresh Gel and avoiding the use of deodorants and perfumed soaps. Also, if there isn’t pain associated with the odor and the smell isn’t offensive, there is probably nothing to worry about.
Why do I find it difficult to orgasm?
There is no reason to be ashamed about this because one in three women have difficulty reaching orgasm while having sex. Some physical and psychological factors may contribute and that is why you need to consult your OB/GYN for possible solutions.
Is it safe to have sex while pregnant?
This depends on some factors. For example, if you have placenta previa, a condition where the placenta covers most part of the cervix, it will be difficult for you to have sex while pregnant. That’s because you will encounter some bleeding while having sex.
It might sound uncomfortable asking the doctor, but it’s your best chance at not depriving yourself of some pleasure.
How do I know if I have an STI?
Many women often ask if there are physical symptoms to tell if they have an STI or not. You can be exposed to STI and not even know it till after some time. It’s only a doctor that can give you a confirmed diagnosis.
That is why it’s vital to discuss you sexual history including how many sexual partners you have had in the past if you have with your doctor. Don’t be ashamed of asking your doctor this because you will be safeguarding the health of both you and your partner.
Why do I feel pain during sex?
There could be a variety of factors that are involved. Infections, lack of lubrication, slim vagina, psychological factors, etc could account. Whatever the cause may be, endeavour to visit your doctor for further evaluation. Your doctor should be able to find a solution and make sex more enjoyable for you.
Is my vagina really normal?
There is no way to tell if a vagina is normal or not because no two vagina is really the same. A vagina can look different from colour of skin to labia length, etc. So, you shouldn’t be worried about the appearance of your vagina. However, speak to your OBY/GYN if you still feel different.
You shouldn’t be afraid to ask your doctor these “embarrassing” questions. They are always there to help and provide you with solutions. So, don’t delay keeping that appointment with your OB/GYN.
