What happens when your man wants you to go down on him, while you don’t want to do so? It could be a dicey situation to handle. Read through to have an idea of how to go about it.
There are only a few individuals that prefer to do everything there’s to try in a sexual relationship. I bet your lover does not prefer to do everything any given partner of his mayor can wish to try, either. Perhaps it’s that he does not like somebody twiddling with his ass, or perhaps, he doesn’t spend time fondling your breasts, perhaps he is not really into the vulvar massage, or perhaps he will not want to call you names you preface to be called during sex.
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Everyone has or her likes and dislikes when it comes to sexual activities for personal reasons they prefer to give, and there is no one is obligated to try EVERYTHING when it comes to sex or to try to do everything partner wants. Good sex is all about figuring out the common denominators in what you and your partner prefer to do when it comes to having sex.
Certainly, some individuals have some things that they do love to do, and it is not cool if a lover does not feel cool doing those things.
But most of the time, simply because your partner does not like doing just one given thing when it comes to sex does not indicate that you are sexually incompatible your partner, and also does not imply that wanting to try that particular thing is enough to bring the relationship to an end.
It’s rather more seemingly for a relationship to end when a partner cannot figure out that sex is what you work on while bearing each people’s likes and dislikes in mind, or does not respect it when a partner does not feel inclined to try something new.
You don’t like giving head or haven’t nonetheless, and that is altogether okay. It may be that there are specific things about it that you don’t love or the way you partner goes about it is not okay with you. Bear in mind that in a sexual relationship, you need to be open to what you want and don’t want. If for instance, your ex-held your head during when you are giving him oral sex, and you are not okay with it. Or he made it an obligation that you have to do it. Or he didn’t care about treating your mouth with care during the act or something related to that. You can point it out for your current boyfriend to correct the mistakes.
If you only plain loathe it — or you don’t desire to try it for any reason, — you should tell your partner about it, and both of you can work out something that is likable for the both of you. Don’t just do it because you are obligated to do so, you would not enjoy the act and your partner may not even get what he expects.
Both parties should enjoy sexual acts. You should be happy to please your partner, and he should be willing to do same. So if you guys are cool with exploring your body, there is no reason why you should hold back and not give in to oral sex.
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Oral sex is very pleasurable; if you have not tried it, then you are indeed restricting yourself to the possibilities of having a great time in bed. Tell your man how you feel about it if you are willing to learn, let him know you how you feel and work it out with him.
However, before you go down on any man, make sure you are clear about health status, and he is free from all form of sexually transmitted diseases. Oral sex is a whole new level of sexual commitment, so you have to be sure your partner is clean before you give him the good o’l head. Failure to do so exposes you to all kinds of risks. Never put your life in danger for some pleasure. Stay woke!
