10. You can’t see yourself with him in 10 years, and school or your career is your real focus.
If your career, school and future plans are your primary focus then anyone worth having wont pressure you to make a commitment that you are not ready for. This can get real complicate and even lead to lost dreams or confusion. Look, if you are not 100% sure that you are ready for a commitment then simply slow it down a bit. This could save what could eventually become a beautiful relationship from certain doom.