How long should you wait in between pregnancies

“Can I start having my babies now? Or if not now when will be the best?” Thousands of questions like this must have been coming to your mind. This article will be deliberating on the experiences of different moms during their child-bearing days.

A lot of women get confused about how long they should wait before popping another baby; this is because the factors guiding this decision varies depending on the different life goals and plans of every individual.

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 Having a family is one of the most significant responsibilities in life and if it is not properly managed, can ruin the rest of your life. Most women have abandoned their career to face having kids but ended up regretting this decision. Also, some women who have kids in between work and other endeavors wish they had all their kids before kicking off their career. 

So the decision on how long you should wait before your next baby solely depends on what you want. However, opinions from other women on how they managed the situation won’t hurt, so we are going to include them here too. Sit tight, relax and enjoy this educative piece.

Most moms I’ve talked to about their children’s spacing say they can’t imagine a better picture for their family other than the one they are already maintaining. Due to their experience over the years, they’ve got a lot to share – some having their children babies spaced far apart or close enough. You could consider their experiences to know how to go about your spacing; if you have a little confusion on, it’ll help you see whether you should keep the baby or otherwise. 

Less Than 2 Years Apart

The Playground Wisdom: After having her two first kid with a 16 months spacing, Janerl Lampson of Bakersfield California says “I was already doing diaper, so the learning curve was not that big,” 

With the speedy family addition, you’ll reduce the time you spend on your baby mode.”I would have loved twins—I’m the kind who says, if you’re already doing it, you might as well do it more.” 

Many moms are better with this so that you won’t find baby proof your house over and over again, or always shop for the latest breast pump. You are already accustomed to the nuances of teething and tummy time when after the second and third come along. For the women that had some issues with conceiving their first child or maybe married after 32, you should hasten up because time waits for nobody and Mr. Menopause is around the neighborhood.

The Highs:”My girls are always with each other, Eliana said the other day that she wants to live with Leah forever.” says Dara Federman, a Brooklyn mom of two cuties, 3 and two years of age. Most moms have come to notice that kids under the age of 2 always enjoy the company of a new sibling, and ever less jealous. If you can deal with the pressure, within a year or so you’ll adorn with sweet kids who enjoy their company, entertain themselves and play along nicely. 

Surprisingly, this spacing can be financially beneficial. Remember several activities offer discounts for younger siblings, most dance classes, camps and some preschools provide that.

 The best part of it comes when they enroll into the same college, you’ll be getting the best deal and will be spending less on tuition and this, in turn, will lead to significant financial aid in the form of grants and loans – so stop thinking about the double expenses with back-to-back kids. 

The Lows

 Be careful because your marriage may get tested during the early days, both parents could feel stressed by the routine of laundry, feedings, and sleepless nights.

You might not be getting any break considering because the kids could merge up their daily tantrums, whiny spells, and potty accidents and just lay it all on you. “Someone was always sick or not sleeping. I think I missed out on really enjoying a lot of their stages because we were always in ‘crisis mode, the first two years were tough,” says Susan Hayden, of Seattle, the mother of Charlie, 5, and Clara, 4. So make your decisions based on what you think its best for you and prepare for the consequences.