Moving your sex scene from the conventional location on the bed is a good way to tune up the sexual tempo in your relationship. There are other sex location options like the kitchen table, your car but none is as unique as sex in the shower.
There are some things you need to figure out before you engage in shower sex. The shower space is usually tight, slippery and no air. Also, there is usually nothing to hold on to, coupled with it being a wet place, this makes it a not so safe place to have sex.
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Do you rule out the idea of having sex in the shower because of these reasons? The answer is no. There are ways to go around the situation and have the best sex of your life in the shower.
These are some things that will turn your shower sex from awkward to great:
Try Dirty First
Before you get into the shower, try to get dirty first. You are going to clean up in the shower anyway, so why don’t you give it a trial. This will set the mood for the mind-blowing show sex. You can try rubbing chocolates on your body.
You can also do body painting. When getting dirty, do it in such a way that it will be foreplay to get your partner in the mode. You can use sex oils on your partner and rub him senseless before you head to the bathroom.
You can as well get him to go down there and make a sweet mess before you proceed to the shower. Get creative first, and every other thing will add up naturally.
Keep Things Cool
When you mention shower sex, what comes to most people’s mind is sex under the hot or steamy shower. It is not always the case.
You can create the steam with your body contacts. You may end up scalding yourself when you go at it under hot steamy water. Remember, the bathroom usually don’t have outlets to let off steams. Adjust the water to a cool temperate.
Also, remember not to rush things when you get into the bathroom. If you want your time in there to last long and take in every moment, you have to take it slow.
Introduce Sex Toys
Nothing adds more thrills to shower sex than vibrations. You can introduce waterproof sex toys to spice up your adventure. After the session, you can keep the gadget where it will come in handy the next time you want to try out shower sex.
There are lots of sex toys designed to get things more interesting in the tub. Make sure your partner is cool with it, help him take charge and try out new stuff. In the end, you both will have fun.
Be Safety Conscious
I have mentioned that shower sex is not as safe as sex in bed. There is a chance that you can slip and fall. Thus, you need to make safety and vital part of sex not minding the location. First, you need to have an anti-slip mat on your shower floor.
Also, if shower sex will be a regular thing with your sex, then you need to install handles and grab bars inside the shower. This will reduce the risk of slip and fall accidents. Do not be carried away while you are it and do not try a position you are not comfortable with. Make sure your shower is spacious enough for you both and have your towel handy just in case things get too wet.
Stay Wet
Water does not replay lube. In fact, water removes the natural lubricant. Thus, you need to bring lube when going in for shower sex and plenty of it. This will also help you have fun when you use toys. Lubrication is the key when the water gets too much.
Remember To Have Fun
Being safety conscious when having a phone should not prevent you from having fun. The idea of having shower sex is to have fun in the first place. So, do all you can to make the most of your time. Be spontaneous and make sure you have a great time in there.
