Most women tend to overlook some red flags that show that their significant other is seeing someone else. Then they act surprised in, disappointed and shocked when they discover that he had other options all these while.
The truth is that, when a guy is genuinely committed to you, he will not have eyes for other women. That is a simple truth. Also, because he is seeing other women do not mean that you cannot make him commit exclusively to your relationship.
It may require some time for him to open up himself to you and commit to your relationship. Either way, you have a right to know when he is on a date with someone else. Having this knowledge will help you set the pace for your relationship.
These are some tips to help you know that your guy is seeing other people;
1. You Are Not In a Committed Relationship with Him
If he is yet to say the words, I am not in a relationship with another person, don’t assume that he is not. There are chances that these days, when your guy is not committed to you, he is probably dating another or several women.
Same way you should be talking to other guys besides your main guy too. This is not an excuse for you to be having sex with every other guy you meet. What it means is that, you should keep your options open, go on date with other guys.
You should keep doing this until both of you are ready to commit exclusively to the relationship. For as long as you both have not declared full time commitment to each other, there is no point to assume you are the only lady in his life.
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You should know that you both may feel something for each other, but that doesn’t mean you are the only girl in your guy’s life. Naturally, most men do not like commitment. So if you notice he is finding it difficult to commit to just you, you should know that he has other options too.
2. He Won’t Hang Out With You on Weekends
If your boyfriend only wants to hang out with you on a weekday and is unavailable when it is weekends, the chances are that he is going out to meet some other chicks out there to fill his dating book. Don’t be a weekday type of girl.
There are high chances that he is married and has to go home to his family during weekends. In this case, you are being used, and you should get out of such relationship before you hurt yourself.
3. He Is Uncomfortable When You Try To Touch His Phone
If your boyfriend freaks out whenever you want to touch his phone, then it is most likely that he has other eggs placed in other baskets. This doesn’t mean that you should hack into your boyfriend’s phone to see what he is up to. If you are in a relationship and you don’t trust your boyfriend enough not to snoop through his emails and text messages, then it may be typed to take stock of your current relationship. Most men do not joke with their cell phones, but if he is genuinely committed to you, he wouldn’t mind when you peep through his chats.
4. He Is Never Straightforward With His Answers
When your boyfriend’s response is always a maybe, and he is ready don’t want to commit, then it may be a sign that he is into other guys. A definite yes from him when it comes to relationship questions means that you are his only option and he is committed to your relationship.
Never ignore this sign as it is one of the ways to figure out where you stand in a relationship. Your boyfriend should be honest with you, anything less is not acceptable.
5. You Are Always Seeing Him with Other Girls
You need trust to make a relationship. If you are having severe trust issues or you are always seeing him in compromising positions with other girls, then you need to reconsider your relationship.
