Make Love To Your Damn Self: Masturbation Tips

Masturbation is one of the healthiest ways to explore your body, and yet, it’s a topic that is rarely discussed when it comes to a person’s sex life. Studies show that masturbating helps keep you young, boosts confidence, and also contributes to a better overall love life. 

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Of course, everyone’s experience with masturbation tends to hinge on how easy it is to cross the finish line. For some of us, getting that Big O during a self-loving session is easy as pie. For others, it’s an uphill battle. 

Knowing how to have a better romp in the hay with yourself is a huge plus to your love life. These masturbation tips will help you make your solo time better than ever before. 

  1. Try different strokes. Most of us have a go-to masturbation method we know and love. It gets the job done, sure, but have you ever tried spicing things up with a new stroke or a little more discovery than usual? It can be a serious life-changer. You can check out new ways to have fun by searching up female masturbation methods on Google. 
  2. Use lube. Your personal lubrication down there can make or break a good self-love session. Dryness is rough on sensitive skin down there and can even cause an injury. When you’re dry, using toys won’t be as effective. A little coin-sized spot of lube can improve your traction and help you get things going. 
  3. Don’t just go for the clit. Girls all know where their clitoris is after a certain age, and it’s most women’s go-to for an orgasm. It’s great, but if you focus on the clit and only your clit, you’re losing out on a lot of different sensations. Women can experience different types of orgasms based on what they’re touching. You would be surprised at how good a G-spot orgasm can be. 
  4. Check out online masturbation tutorials. Yes, yes, masturbation is a natural instinct and we know how to do it. Though it might be an instinctual thing, that doesn’t mean you can’t find new techniques that can improve your experience online. 
  5. Try some new toys. Using your hands is the traditional way to cross the finish line, and for many of us, it’s a tried and true method. Your hands are still limited in what they can do, and sometimes, it just doesn’t work out. Toys, especially rabbit vibrators, tend to be made to tease places your fingers alone can’t reach. 
  6. Check out different types of porn. It’s no joke. Being in the mood and getting turned on matters a lot when you’re trying to rub one out. Different types of porn will have different effects on your libido. For some, taking a look at video clips is what will work best. For others, a little bit of literary erotica works best. 
  7. Oh, and check out different porn genres. Just about every person you know has one or two kinks or fetishes that get them going. Chances are that you have certain kinks yourself. You might not even know what they are. The best way to find out is to check out different porn genres. 

Remember that it’s not a bad thing to do. We live in a society that tends to shame people for their sexuality, and if you ask me, that’s criminal. Masturbation is one of the healthiest ways to enjoy your body and learn about yourself. So, don’t listen to the haters. Love yourself!