When a woman is free and openly sexual, she can is usually labeled. She can be known as a free spirit or in less positive terms, a slut. It’s never all right to judge a woman based on her sexual behavior. In fact, you may even be surprised that women who have been “whorin’ it up” in their past now have a good head on their shoulders and also a deep set confidence from all her previous experiences.
If a woman does not have the chance to explore her sexuality or her youth in general, there are a plethora of issues that can occur. Going from relationship to relationship never really allows her to develop her own likes and dislikes (for some women, not all). For the women who are able to juggle their school, career, and relationship without going insane, we give you kudos, because it’s not something everyone can do. For some young women, they need to find themselves and have experiences to know what they really want in life. This may mean having sexual encounters with different men and not staying in relationships for a long period of time.
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Think about a woman who has ever been labeled slut. Chances are she is very confident in who she as a person and doesn’t care about what others think. This is because she’s learned how to take care of herself and not to let anyone’s opinions make or break her decisions. Those who are not comfortable or confident in themselves will find a harder time allowing this to happen. The opinions of people will also make her decisions for her.
Besides being confident, having different sexual partners allows you to have a mixed of experiences that would have not otherwise been possible if you were in one committed relationship to the next. So be free and enjoy yourself. You’re only young once and that tight body of yours will not always be so nice and tight as you age.
When you are in a committed relationship, your reassurance in yourself and also your partner will only make your bond stronger. Since you spend so much alone time being single, you know how important it is to have your own time and space. When your partner tells you that he needs to just have some time for himself, you aren’t immediately thinking that it has something to do with you or that he’s losing interest. Just by knowing this, you are already the best girlfriend.
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So if being a slut means that you are secure with yourself, then you should have nothing to regret. While the negative connotation is not something you want to be associated with, it’s not the end of the world. Besides, those who are too busy worrying about your life are not realizing that theirs is passing them by. So let the haters say what they want and you do what you want. I think we know who wins in this war.
